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To Gillian on Her 37th Birthday

1996 · 93 min · Director: Michael Pressman ★ IMDb 5.8 · 5,311 ratings

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David Lewis is affected by the death of his wife Gillian, who fell from the mast pole of their boat on a sailing trip two years ago. David deals with his grief by continuing his romance with Gillian during walks with her ghost on the beach at night. While David lives in the past, other family problems crop up in the present in the real world. He neglects his teenage daughter Rachel and his in-laws come for a weekend visit to help her. Rachel has lost her mother and needs her father to snap back into the real world and help her.

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To Gillian on Her 37th Birthday (1996) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Sadness 35%, Empathy 25%, Love 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure

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  1. Love20%
  2. Hope10%

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The strongest emotional signals are Sadness, Empathy, Love. Genres: Drama, Romance, Fantasy. AI estimate.

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Emotional journey

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  • Sadness
  • Empathy
  • Love

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Dominant emotion: Love

Dominant emotion: Humor

Dominant emotion: Sadness

Dominant emotion: Empathy

Dominant emotion: Tension

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Dominant emotion

Intensity dips around 8 %, then rises around 68 %, then peaks around 93 %.Ending hidden

Emotional journey
%Approximate minuteDominant emotionOverall intensitySadnessEmpathyLove
2.5 %≈ 2′Love42 %7 %13 %30 %
7.5 %≈ 7′Humor39 %14 %21 %19 %
12.5 %≈ 12′Humor40 %25 %30 %15 %
17.5 %≈ 16′Humor48 %36 %38 %24 %
22.5 %≈ 21′Sadness54 %40 %43 %29 %
27.5 %≈ 26′Humor56 %40 %44 %31 %
32.5 %≈ 30′Sadness60 %50 %53 %39 %
37.5 %≈ 35′Empathy59 %45 %52 %32 %
42.5 %≈ 40′Humor55 %26 %41 %20 %
47.5 %≈ 44′Tension60 %30 %45 %20 %
52.5 %≈ 49′Tension66 %49 %56 %28 %
57.5 %≈ 53′Sadness60 %51 %52 %33 %
62.5 %≈ 58′Humor50 %39 %41 %29 %
67.5 %≈ 63′Tension55 %39 %44 %29 %
72.5 %≈ 67′Tension71 %58 %60 %41 %
77.5 %≈ 72′Sadness74 %66 %69 %49 %
82.5 %≈ 77′Empathy65 %57 %64 %46 %
87.5 %≈ 81′Sadness70 %64 %68 %56 %
92.5 %≈ 86′Sadness82 %78 %77 %72 %
97.5 %≈ 91′Not enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidence
Riches to rags

Rags to riches: The emotional tone rises from negative to positive.

Riches to rags: The emotional tone falls from positive to negative.

Man in a hole: The tone falls, then recovers.

Icarus: The tone rises, then falls.

Cinderella: The tone rises, falls, then rises again.

Oedipus: The tone falls, rises, then falls again.

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Cast

Peter Gallagher

David Lewis

Seth Green

Danny

LF
Laurie Fortier

Cindy Bayles

Wendy Crewson

Kevin Dollof

Bruce Altman

Paul Wheeler

Kathy Baker

Esther Wheeler

RS
Rachel Seidman-Lockamy

Megan Weeks

LN
Lorielle New

Blonde on the Beach

DC
Danny Crook

Lifeguard

TH
Todd Haven

Paramedic

Details

Directed by
Michael Pressman
Written by
David E. Kelley, Michael Brady
Type
Movies
Released
1996
Runtime
93 min
Country
United States
Ratings
★ IMDb 5.8 · 5,311 ratings
Feels mostly
Sadness
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