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How to Deal

2003 · 99 min · Director: Clare Kilner ★ IMDb 5.6 · 10,211 ratings

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Halley is a young high school student who is disillusioned with love after seeing the many dysfunctional relationships around her. Her parents are now divorced and her father has a new young girlfriend she doesn't care for too much. Her mother is now always alone; and her sister is so overwhelmed by her upcoming wedding that she barely leaves the house anymore. On top of that, the shallowness of all the girls and guys at her school convinces Halley that finding true love is impossible. A tragic accident, however, leads her to meeting Macon, and suddenly Halley finds that true love can occur under unusual circumstances.

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How to Deal (2003) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Empathy 30%, Sadness 25%, Love 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure

20%Love
  1. Love20%
  2. Hope15%

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Why it feels this way

The strongest emotional signals are Empathy, Sadness, Love. Genres: Comedy, Drama, Romance. AI estimate.

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Consider this title if you are looking for Empathy, Sadness and Love. Its IMDb rating of 5.6/10 suggests a mixed audience reception; consider how well the emotional profile suits you. For these leading emotions, its Feel Score is 58/100.

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Emotional journey

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  • Love
  • Sadness
  • Hope

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Dominant emotion: Humor

Dominant emotion: Sadness

Dominant emotion: Tension

Dominant emotion: Love

Dominant emotion: Hope

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Dominant emotion

Intensity dips around 3 %, then rises around 18 %, then peaks around 93 %.Ending hidden

Emotional journey
%Approximate minuteDominant emotionOverall intensityLoveSadnessHope
2.5 %≈ 2′Humor42 %13 %17 %13 %
7.5 %≈ 7′Humor46 %15 %13 %14 %
12.5 %≈ 12′Humor45 %18 %13 %15 %
17.5 %≈ 17′Humor54 %20 %34 %11 %
22.5 %≈ 22′Sadness73 %31 %65 %10 %
27.5 %≈ 27′Sadness70 %39 %64 %18 %
32.5 %≈ 32′Humor59 %33 %44 %23 %
37.5 %≈ 37′Tension60 %24 %31 %20 %
42.5 %≈ 42′Humor57 %20 %20 %16 %
47.5 %≈ 47′Humor54 %29 %24 %23 %
52.5 %≈ 52′Love56 %36 %34 %31 %
57.5 %≈ 57′Tension54 %26 %29 %25 %
62.5 %≈ 62′Humor54 %21 %29 %16 %
67.5 %≈ 67′Sadness63 %25 %39 %14 %
72.5 %≈ 72′Humor65 %24 %41 %14 %
77.5 %≈ 77′Sadness64 %35 %38 %29 %
82.5 %≈ 82′Hope68 %56 %26 %51 %
87.5 %≈ 87′Love72 %66 %15 %60 %
92.5 %≈ 92′Love77 %68 %12 %62 %
97.5 %≈ 97′Not enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidence
Man in a hole

Rags to riches: The emotional tone rises from negative to positive.

Riches to rags: The emotional tone falls from positive to negative.

Man in a hole: The tone falls, then recovers.

Icarus: The tone rises, then falls.

Cinderella: The tone rises, falls, then rises again.

Oedipus: The tone falls, rises, then falls again.

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Cast

TF
Trent Ford

TF
Trent Ford

Macon Forrester

Allison Janney

Lydia Martin

AH
Alexandra Holden

Scarlett Smith

Dylan Baker

Steve Beckwith

NF
Nina Foch

Grandma Halley

MC
Mary Catherine Garrison

Ashley Martin

CR
Connie Ray

Marion Smith

MA
Mackenzie Astin

Lewis Warsher

Charlotte Sullivan

Elizabeth Gunderson

RK
Ray Kahnert

Donald Sherwood

AG
Andrew Gillies

Buck Warsher

JW
John White

Michael Sherwood

LC
Laura Catalano

Lorna Queen

Peter Gallagher

Len Martin

SS
Sonja Smits

AM
Alison MacLeod

Details

Directed by
Clare Kilner
Written by
Sarah Dessen, Neena Beber
Type
Movies
Released
2003
Runtime
99 min
Country
United States
Ratings
★ IMDb 5.6 · 10,211 ratings
Feels mostly
Empathy
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