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Because I Said So

2007 · 102 min · Director: Michael Lehmann ★ IMDb 5.6 · 42,524 ratings

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Approaching age sixty, Daphne Wilder divorced when she was young, has not dated since, and has raised on her own and has fostered a close, loving relationship with her three daughters, Maggie, Mae and Milly, she now assisting Milly in her successful catering business. Daphne was mother of the bride for a first time at Maggie's wedding, and a second time at Mae's wedding, but she fears there won't be a third and final time for a Milly wedding in insecure Milly attracting only who seem to be the wrong men. Not wanting Milly to turn into another "alone" version of herself at age sixty, Daphne, without telling any of her daughters let alone Milly, decides to take matters into her own hands by placing a personal ad for a potential mate for Milly. Scheduling all seventeen interviews in succession at a restaurant, Daphne finds the ad has attracted one "loser" after another, until she reaches number seventeen, Jason, an architect who is handsome and seems smart, well-bred, successful and forward thinking about his life. The two arrange for Jason to meet Milly by "accident". What Daphne does not anticipate is that there ends up being a number eighteen, Johnny, who witnessed the interviews from the sidelines as the guitarist performing at the restaurant, and while Johnny did approach Daphne in his interest in meeting Milly from what he heard of the interviews, she immediately dismissed him solely because he is a musician and thus irresponsible by nature, much like her ex-husband. In their accidental meetings, Milly embarks on a relationship with both Jason and Johnny concurrently, and upon learning about Johnny in the picture, Daphne starts pushing Jason as the favored one to Milly. Beyond Milly, Jason and Johnny's own thoughts about their two relationships, the two men who know nothing about the other being in Milly's life, a question becomes how Milly eventually learning about the ad, an inevitability, will factor into what happens, not only about Milly's love life but her relationship with her mother. In helping Milly with her love life and only fostered by watching old Gary Cooper movies, Daphne may dredge up latent feelings of romance of her own, it which she may find in the most unlikely of places.

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Because I Said So (2007) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Humor 30%, Love 25%, Joy 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure

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  1. Humor30%
  2. Love25%
  3. Joy20%

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The strongest emotional signals are Humor, Love, Joy. Genres: Comedy, Romance. AI estimate.

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%Approximate minuteDominant emotionOverall intensityLoveHumorJoy
2.5 %≈ 3′Humor42 %15 %37 %17 %
7.5 %≈ 8′Humor44 %14 %40 %13 %
12.5 %≈ 13′Humor43 %13 %41 %11 %
17.5 %≈ 18′Humor39 %14 %38 %16 %
22.5 %≈ 23′Humor40 %14 %36 %18 %
27.5 %≈ 28′Humor43 %16 %38 %16 %
32.5 %≈ 33′Humor43 %28 %36 %25 %
37.5 %≈ 38′Love41 %34 %34 %31 %
42.5 %≈ 43′Humor39 %31 %31 %25 %
47.5 %≈ 48′Love41 %31 %34 %24 %
52.5 %≈ 54′Humor48 %35 %36 %28 %
57.5 %≈ 59′Love48 %39 %31 %21 %
62.5 %≈ 64′Love46 %36 %24 %14 %
67.5 %≈ 69′Tension48 %29 %20 %10 %
72.5 %≈ 74′Humor46 %23 %23 %6 %
77.5 %≈ 79′Sadness49 %28 %21 %6 %
82.5 %≈ 84′Love55 %43 %21 %20 %
87.5 %≈ 89′Joy58 %50 %28 %40 %
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Cast

TP
Ty Panitz

Lionel

MC
Matt Champagne

Eli

CF
Colin Ferguson

Derek

Tony Hale

Stuart

SB
Sophina Brown

Milly's Staff #1 Matisse

KL
Karen Leigh Hopkins

Milly's Staff #2 Charlie

EM
Emily Maisano

Milly's Staff #3

GD
Gerald Downey

Cousin Dougy's Friend

IS
Ingrid Sanai Buron

Singing Bride

JB
Jennifer Bolton Lee

Daphne's Masseuse

AR
Alexis Rhee

Maggie's Masseuse

SL
Shu Lan Tuan

Milly's Masseuse

Steve Little

Bad Teeth Guy

Details

Directed by
Michael Lehmann
Written by
Karen Leigh Hopkins, Jessie Nelson, Karen Leigh Hopkins
Type
Movies
Released
2007
Runtime
102 min
Country
United States
Ratings
★ IMDb 5.6 · 42,524 ratings
Feels mostly
Humor
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