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The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them

2014 · 119 min · Director: Ned Benson ★ IMDb 6.3 · 13,735 ratings

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Following the death of their only offspring, an infant son named Cody, married New Yorkers Conor Ludlow and Eleanor Rigby - a struggling restaurateur and an academic working on her Ph.D. in Anthropology before Cody arrived in their lives - hit a rough spot in their relationship. Although still loving Conor, El is uncertain if she can bear what Conor represents to her and bear the grief even if Conor is no longer in her life. Following an incident, El decides to disappear from Conor's life, she taking refuge at the suburban home of her parents Julian and Mary Rigby, an academic himself and a musician respectively. Just to keep her mind active and off the thought of Conor or Cody, Julian suggests to El that she return to college and he pulls some strings for El possibly to enter into his colleague Professor Lilian Friedman's class. Despite being a therapist himself, he also tries to get El to see a therapist to deal with her grief. Meanwhile, Conor is facing his own emotional and professional problems, he believing his life being clear when he was with El. The restaurant was in part following his father Spencer Ludlow's professional footsteps, although Conor does not like to believe he is anything like his father in temperament, he who is on his third marriage, each of the previous two which failed. As Conor tries to locate El, he also has to deal with the downward slide of the restaurant, which he opened in another part as a cooperative arrangement with classically trained chef Stuart, a longtime friend who nonetheless doesn't treat cooking with much seriousness. Conor also has to deal with the logistics of packing up his and El's apartment which includes what to do with Cody's belongings. In his loneliness, Conor may fall prey to other women despite still loving El himself. With these two parallel tracks, the question becomes if they can find each other again both physically and emotionally.

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The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them (2014) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Sadness 35%, Melancholy 25%, Empathy 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure

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Dominant emotion: Tension

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%Approximate minuteDominant emotionOverall intensitySadnessEmpathyLove
2.5 %≈ 3′Love67 %17 %27 %47 %
7.5 %≈ 9′Sadness58 %35 %38 %27 %
12.5 %≈ 15′Sadness46 %40 %40 %18 %
17.5 %≈ 21′Humor41 %33 %37 %19 %
22.5 %≈ 27′Empathy47 %36 %42 %22 %
27.5 %≈ 33′Sadness59 %50 %52 %24 %
32.5 %≈ 39′Sadness60 %53 %54 %20 %
37.5 %≈ 45′Sadness52 %42 %47 %22 %
42.5 %≈ 51′Sadness54 %45 %48 %27 %
47.5 %≈ 57′Sadness60 %55 %54 %25 %
52.5 %≈ 62′Sadness59 %52 %52 %18 %
57.5 %≈ 68′Tension57 %47 %49 %20 %
62.5 %≈ 74′Sadness59 %49 %48 %27 %
67.5 %≈ 80′Tension66 %57 %52 %27 %
72.5 %≈ 86′Sadness69 %63 %60 %27 %
77.5 %≈ 92′Sadness64 %60 %62 %30 %
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87.5 %≈ 104′Sadness82 %75 %78 %70 %
92.5 %≈ 110′Love57 %45 %51 %49 %
97.5 %≈ 116′Love32 %22 %25 %27 %
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Oedipus: The tone falls, rises, then falls again.

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Cast

Bill Hader

Stuart

Isabelle Huppert

Mary Rigby

Ciarán Hinds

Spencer Ludlow

Nina Arianda

Alexis

Jess Weixler

Katy Rigby

William Hurt

Julian Rigby

Ryan Eggold

Guy from Club

JS
Jeremy Shamos

Evangelist

WR
Wyatt Ralff

Philip

BD
Brendan Donaldson

Casimir Waiter

DS
Daron Stewart

Guy Walking on Bridge

JC
Julee Cerda

Nurse

SE
Sasha Eden

Coffee Truck Barista

JF
Johnathan Fernandez

Bar Fight Guy

JS
Justine Salata

Bar Fight Girl

MP
Musto Pelinkovicci

Ukrainian Cabbie

Details

Directed by
Ned Benson
Written by
Ned Benson
Type
Movies
Released
2014
Runtime
119 min
Country
United States
Genres
Drama, Romance
Ratings
★ IMDb 6.3 · 13,735 ratings
Feels mostly
Sadness
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