How to Talk to Girls at Parties
2017 · 103 min · Director: John Cameron Mitchell
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In the '70s, punk-loving teen Enn (Alex Sharp) attempts to crash a party in the London suburbs. He ends up at the wrong house where he encounters a kooky, conformist cult, which includes the naive Zan (Elle Fanning). They hit it off before Enn learns that she is actually a repressed humanoid alien on Earth to complete a fatal ritual. Enn appeals to the punk scene to help both emotionally and physically liberate the lady he's fallen for. Directed by John Cameron MItchell. Based on the short story of the same name by Neil Gaiman.
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How to Talk to Girls at Parties (2017) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Surprise 25%, Curiosity 25%, Humor 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure
- Surprise25%
- Curiosity25%
- Humor20%
- Love15%
- Excitement15%
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The strongest emotional signals are Surprise, Curiosity, Humor. Genres: Comedy, Romance, Music. AI estimate.
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Emotional journey
- Love
- Tension
- Curiosity
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Dominant emotion: Humor
Dominant emotion: Curiosity
Dominant emotion: Tension
Dominant emotion: Love
Dominant emotion: Sadness
Dominant emotion
| % | Approximate minute | Dominant emotion | Overall intensity | Love | Tension | Curiosity |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2.5 % | ≈ 3′ | Humor | 57 % | 2 % | 18 % | 12 % |
| 7.5 % | ≈ 8′ | Humor | 57 % | 5 % | 16 % | 24 % |
| 12.5 % | ≈ 13′ | Curiosity | 58 % | 13 % | 16 % | 48 % |
| 17.5 % | ≈ 18′ | Curiosity | 61 % | 20 % | 30 % | 61 % |
| 22.5 % | ≈ 23′ | Tension | 63 % | 26 % | 45 % | 58 % |
| 27.5 % | ≈ 28′ | Love | 56 % | 36 % | 35 % | 46 % |
| 32.5 % | ≈ 33′ | Humor | 55 % | 46 % | 20 % | 36 % |
| 37.5 % | ≈ 39′ | Love | 57 % | 44 % | 25 % | 38 % |
| 42.5 % | ≈ 44′ | Curiosity | 56 % | 30 % | 38 % | 48 % |
| 47.5 % | ≈ 49′ | Curiosity | 59 % | 24 % | 39 % | 50 % |
| 52.5 % | ≈ 54′ | Humor | 69 % | 31 % | 40 % | 48 % |
| 57.5 % | ≈ 59′ | Love | 76 % | 38 % | 56 % | 49 % |
| 62.5 % | ≈ 64′ | Tension | 79 % | 31 % | 74 % | 49 % |
| 67.5 % | ≈ 70′ | Tension | 81 % | 26 % | 81 % | 44 % |
| 72.5 % | ≈ 75′ | Tension | 80 % | 30 % | 79 % | 40 % |
| 77.5 % | ≈ 80′ | Tension | 79 % | 46 % | 66 % | 40 % |
| 82.5 % | ≈ 85′ | Love | 83 % | 69 % | 48 % | 32 % |
| 87.5 % | ≈ 90′ | Sadness | 84 % | 75 % | 28 % | 26 % |
| 92.5 % | ≈ 95′ | Love | 82 % | 73 % | 13 % | 32 % |
| 97.5 % | ≈ 100′ | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence |
Riches to rags
Rags to riches: The emotional tone rises from negative to positive.
Riches to rags: The emotional tone falls from positive to negative.
Man in a hole: The tone falls, then recovers.
Icarus: The tone rises, then falls.
Cinderella: The tone rises, falls, then rises again.
Oedipus: The tone falls, rises, then falls again.
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Details
- Directed by
- John Cameron Mitchell
- Written by
- John Cameron Mitchell, Neil Gaiman, Philippa Goslett
- Type
- Movies
- Released
- 2017
- Runtime
- 103 min
- Country
- United Kingdom, United States
- Ratings
- Feels mostly
- Surprise
- Data updated
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