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You Hurt My Feelings

2023 · 93 min · Director: Nicole Holofcener ★ IMDb 6.5 · 17,810 ratings

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A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

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You Hurt My Feelings (2023) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Humor 30%, Anxiety 25%, Empathy 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure

30%Humor
  1. Humor30%

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Each viewer contributes one response, split equally across their selected emotions. When available, an automated estimate supplies a prior that is blended with those responses. Counts include distinct viewers, not automated estimates or archived anonymous votes. Fewer than 3 viewers is an early estimate; more responses do not guarantee certainty.

Why it feels this way

The strongest emotional signals are Humor, Anxiety, Empathy. Genres: Comedy, Drama, Romance. AI estimate.

Is it worth watching?

Consider this title if you are looking for Humor, Anxiety and Empathy. Its IMDb rating of 6.5/10 suggests a generally positive audience reception. For these leading emotions, its Feel Score is 67/100.

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Emotional journey

AI · from subtitlesapproximate
  • Empathy
  • Tension
  • Humor

Not enough subtitle evidence

No dominant emotion

Dominant emotion: Tension

Dominant emotion: Sadness

Dominant emotion: Humor

Dominant emotion: Empathy

Dominant emotion: Relief

Empathy
Tension
Humor
Emotional journey Emotional intensity over the film’s runtime, from quieter to stronger on a fixed 0–1 scale. Hatched intervals have insufficient subtitle evidence. The table provides the values. Not enough subtitle evidence
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Dominant emotion

Intensity dips around 13 %, then peaks around 57 %.Ending hidden

Emotional journey
%Approximate minuteDominant emotionOverall intensityEmpathyTensionHumor
2.5 %≈ 2′Tension33 %22 %20 %17 %
7.5 %≈ 7′Sadness30 %23 %16 %18 %
12.5 %≈ 12′Humor29 %20 %18 %21 %
17.5 %≈ 16′Humor32 %16 %20 %30 %
22.5 %≈ 21′Humor37 %19 %25 %34 %
27.5 %≈ 26′Tension44 %30 %35 %29 %
32.5 %≈ 30′Empathy50 %44 %36 %21 %
37.5 %≈ 35′Sadness49 %45 %29 %19 %
42.5 %≈ 40′Humor41 %31 %28 %25 %
47.5 %≈ 44′Humor43 %26 %36 %31 %
52.5 %≈ 49′Tension53 %36 %48 %29 %
57.5 %≈ 53′Tension55 %39 %50 %26 %
62.5 %≈ 58′Humor48 %34 %41 %27 %
67.5 %≈ 63′Empathy44 %38 %35 %28 %
72.5 %≈ 67′Empathy44 %39 %33 %30 %
77.5 %≈ 72′Humor45 %30 %34 %27 %
82.5 %≈ 77′Tension50 %28 %35 %24 %
87.5 %≈ 81′Relief48 %31 %21 %26 %
92.5 %≈ 86′Relief42 %32 %10 %25 %
97.5 %≈ 91′Not enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidence

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Cast

David Cross

Jonathan

LR
LaTanya Richardson Jackson

SS
Sarah Steele

SS
Sarah Steele

Frankie

JB
Jeannie Berlin

Georgia

BR
Bryan Reynoso

Jared

SE
Spike Einbinder

April

WB
Walter Brandes

Chris

EM
Erica Matlin

Ivy

KT
Karolena Theresa

Marielle

TS
Trey Santiago-Hudson

Billy

DM
Doug Moe

Hal

LL
Lynnsey Lewis

Romy

CR
Claudia Robinson

Esther

Details

Directed by
Nicole Holofcener
Type
Movies
Released
2023
Runtime
93 min
Country
United States of America
Ratings
★ IMDb 6.5 · 17,810 ratings
Feels mostly
Humor
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