You Hurt My Feelings
2023 · 93 min · Director: Nicole Holofcener
Show plot summary (may contain spoilers)
A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.
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Emotional fingerprint
You Hurt My Feelings (2023) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Humor 30%, Anxiety 25%, Empathy 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure
- Humor30%
- Anxiety25%
- Empathy20%
- Confusion15%
- Satisfaction10%
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Why it feels this way
The strongest emotional signals are Humor, Anxiety, Empathy. Genres: Comedy, Drama, Romance. AI estimate.
Is it worth watching?
Consider this title if you are looking for Humor, Anxiety and Empathy. Its IMDb rating of 6.5/10 suggests a generally positive audience reception. For these leading emotions, its Feel Score is 67/100.
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Emotional journey
- Empathy
- Tension
- Humor
Not enough subtitle evidence
No dominant emotion
Dominant emotion: Tension
Dominant emotion: Sadness
Dominant emotion: Humor
Dominant emotion: Empathy
Dominant emotion: Relief
Dominant emotion
| % | Approximate minute | Dominant emotion | Overall intensity | Empathy | Tension | Humor |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2.5 % | ≈ 2′ | Tension | 33 % | 22 % | 20 % | 17 % |
| 7.5 % | ≈ 7′ | Sadness | 30 % | 23 % | 16 % | 18 % |
| 12.5 % | ≈ 12′ | Humor | 29 % | 20 % | 18 % | 21 % |
| 17.5 % | ≈ 16′ | Humor | 32 % | 16 % | 20 % | 30 % |
| 22.5 % | ≈ 21′ | Humor | 37 % | 19 % | 25 % | 34 % |
| 27.5 % | ≈ 26′ | Tension | 44 % | 30 % | 35 % | 29 % |
| 32.5 % | ≈ 30′ | Empathy | 50 % | 44 % | 36 % | 21 % |
| 37.5 % | ≈ 35′ | Sadness | 49 % | 45 % | 29 % | 19 % |
| 42.5 % | ≈ 40′ | Humor | 41 % | 31 % | 28 % | 25 % |
| 47.5 % | ≈ 44′ | Humor | 43 % | 26 % | 36 % | 31 % |
| 52.5 % | ≈ 49′ | Tension | 53 % | 36 % | 48 % | 29 % |
| 57.5 % | ≈ 53′ | Tension | 55 % | 39 % | 50 % | 26 % |
| 62.5 % | ≈ 58′ | Humor | 48 % | 34 % | 41 % | 27 % |
| 67.5 % | ≈ 63′ | Empathy | 44 % | 38 % | 35 % | 28 % |
| 72.5 % | ≈ 67′ | Empathy | 44 % | 39 % | 33 % | 30 % |
| 77.5 % | ≈ 72′ | Humor | 45 % | 30 % | 34 % | 27 % |
| 82.5 % | ≈ 77′ | Tension | 50 % | 28 % | 35 % | 24 % |
| 87.5 % | ≈ 81′ | Relief | 48 % | 31 % | 21 % | 26 % |
| 92.5 % | ≈ 86′ | Relief | 42 % | 32 % | 10 % | 25 % |
| 97.5 % | ≈ 91′ | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence |
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Cast
Jared
April
Chris
Ivy
Marielle
Billy
Hal
Romy
Esther
Details
- Directed by
- Nicole Holofcener
- Written by
- Nicole Holofcener
- Type
- Movies
- Released
- 2023
- Runtime
- 93 min
- Country
- United States of America
- Ratings
- Feels mostly
- Humor
- Data updated
Where to watch
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