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Flirting with Disaster

1996 · 93 min · Director: David O. Russell ★ IMDb 6.7 · 21,237 ratings

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Mel Coplin departs on a mission of discovery dragging his wife and 4 month old son behind. He and wife, Nancy, won't agree on a name for their son until adopted Mel gets in touch with his roots. He assures her that once he knows who he really is, the right name for their boy will be a snap. Enlisting the aid of student-psychologist and part-time adoption agent, Tina Kalb, they embark on a journey across the United States to find Mel's "birth" mother. "The best part," Mel tells Nancy, "is it's all free." Tina is finishing her dissertation and will film the happy reunion of mother and child as part of her research. For this privilege, she's footing the bill. His adoptive parents are left behind feeling abandoned by an ungrateful son. Clerical errors, mistaken identities, Nancy's misplaced high school friend and his gay lover, and a super-charged libido here and there are thrown into the mix along the way until -- at last -- Mel's real parents, the Schlictings (mispronounced as "Shit-kings" by Mrs. Coplin), are discovered in remote New Mexico. There, Mel begins to wonder if he would have been better off not knowing these people, after all.

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Flirting with Disaster (1996) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Humor 38%, Confusion 22%, Joy 18%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure

38%Humor
18%Joy
  1. Humor38%
  2. Joy18%
  3. Love10%

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The strongest emotional signals are Humor, Confusion, Joy. Genres: Comedy. AI estimate.

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Consider this title if you are looking for Humor, Confusion and Joy. Its IMDb rating of 6.7/10 suggests a generally positive audience reception. For these leading emotions, its Feel Score is 70/100.

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  • Humor
  • Tension
  • Curiosity

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Dominant emotion: Curiosity

Dominant emotion: Humor

Dominant emotion: Tension

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Dominant emotion

Intensity rises around 68 %, then peaks around 78 %, then dips around 93 %.Ending hidden

Emotional journey
%Approximate minuteDominant emotionOverall intensityHumorTensionCuriosity
2.5 %≈ 2′Curiosity48 %30 %22 %45 %
7.5 %≈ 7′Humor46 %36 %25 %40 %
12.5 %≈ 12′Humor48 %39 %34 %38 %
17.5 %≈ 16′Tension53 %41 %40 %34 %
22.5 %≈ 21′Humor53 %43 %36 %33 %
27.5 %≈ 26′Curiosity50 %36 %35 %41 %
32.5 %≈ 30′Curiosity51 %35 %40 %46 %
37.5 %≈ 35′Tension49 %36 %39 %43 %
42.5 %≈ 40′Curiosity44 %34 %34 %38 %
47.5 %≈ 44′Tension45 %35 %36 %30 %
52.5 %≈ 49′Humor48 %41 %38 %26 %
57.5 %≈ 53′Humor44 %40 %29 %30 %
62.5 %≈ 58′Curiosity44 %34 %26 %38 %
67.5 %≈ 63′Curiosity52 %35 %39 %41 %
72.5 %≈ 67′Tension60 %39 %53 %35 %
77.5 %≈ 72′Tension61 %43 %56 %29 %
82.5 %≈ 77′Humor55 %46 %44 %23 %
87.5 %≈ 81′Humor45 %44 %24 %14 %
92.5 %≈ 86′Humor37 %37 %13 %8 %
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Cast

Ben Stiller

Mel Coplin

MT
Mary Tyler Moore

Pearl Coplin

George Segal

Ed Coplin

Alan Alda

Richard Schlichting

Lily Tomlin

Mary Schlichting

Richard Jenkins

Paul Harmon

Josh Brolin

Tony Kent

Celia Weston

Valerie Swaney

GF
Glenn Fitzgerald

Lonnie Schlichting

BS
Beth Stern

Jane

CL
Cynthia Lamontagne

Sandra

David Patrick Kelly

Fritz Boudreau

JF
John Ford Noonan

Mitch

CO
Charlet Oberly

B&B Lady

ND
Nadia Dajani

Jill

DC
Don Creech

Cop #1

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Clarke Bittner

Cop #2

TK
Tony Kruk

Detective

Details

Directed by
David O. Russell
Written by
David O. Russell
Type
Movies
Released
1996
Runtime
93 min
Country
United States
Genres
Comedy
Ratings
★ IMDb 6.7 · 21,237 ratings
Feels mostly
Humor
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