He's Just Not That Into You
2009 · 129 min · Director: Ken Kwapis
Show plot summary (may contain spoilers)
The needy Gigi Haim is a young woman seeking her prince charming somewhere amongst her unsuccessful dates. After dating estate agent Conor Barry, Gigi anxiously expects to receive a phone call from him. However Conor never calls her. Gigi decides to go to the bar where he frequents to see him, but she meets his friend Alex who works there. They become friends and Alex helps Gigi to interpret the subtle signs given out by her dates.
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He's Just Not That Into You (2009) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Empathy 30%, Anxiety 25%, Sadness 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure
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Why it feels this way
The strongest emotional signals are Empathy, Anxiety, Sadness. Genres: Comedy, Drama, Romance. AI estimate.
Is it worth watching?
Consider this title if you are looking for Empathy, Anxiety and Sadness. Its IMDb rating of 6.4/10 suggests a generally positive audience reception. For these leading emotions, its Feel Score is 67/100.
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Emotional journey
- Hope
- Love
- Sadness
Not enough subtitle evidence
No dominant emotion
Dominant emotion: Humor
Dominant emotion: Sadness
Dominant emotion: Tension
Dominant emotion: Hope
Dominant emotion: Love
Dominant emotion
| % | Approximate minute | Dominant emotion | Overall intensity | Hope | Love | Sadness |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2.5 % | ≈ 3′ | Humor | 37 % | 23 % | 13 % | 12 % |
| 7.5 % | ≈ 10′ | Humor | 35 % | 24 % | 11 % | 14 % |
| 12.5 % | ≈ 16′ | Humor | 36 % | 25 % | 11 % | 16 % |
| 17.5 % | ≈ 23′ | Humor | 41 % | 20 % | 15 % | 25 % |
| 22.5 % | ≈ 29′ | Sadness | 48 % | 18 % | 20 % | 31 % |
| 27.5 % | ≈ 35′ | Humor | 45 % | 21 % | 20 % | 26 % |
| 32.5 % | ≈ 42′ | Sadness | 41 % | 20 % | 19 % | 24 % |
| 37.5 % | ≈ 48′ | Humor | 45 % | 19 % | 25 % | 23 % |
| 42.5 % | ≈ 55′ | Humor | 46 % | 19 % | 26 % | 24 % |
| 47.5 % | ≈ 61′ | Sadness | 45 % | 18 % | 18 % | 29 % |
| 52.5 % | ≈ 68′ | Humor | 49 % | 23 % | 14 % | 31 % |
| 57.5 % | ≈ 74′ | Tension | 53 % | 30 % | 16 % | 30 % |
| 62.5 % | ≈ 81′ | Humor | 54 % | 26 % | 15 % | 32 % |
| 67.5 % | ≈ 87′ | Sadness | 59 % | 14 % | 11 % | 48 % |
| 72.5 % | ≈ 94′ | Sadness | 59 % | 11 % | 13 % | 50 % |
| 77.5 % | ≈ 100′ | Humor | 54 % | 24 % | 23 % | 36 % |
| 82.5 % | ≈ 106′ | Hope | 55 % | 39 % | 39 % | 31 % |
| 87.5 % | ≈ 113′ | Love | 64 % | 52 % | 55 % | 30 % |
| 92.5 % | ≈ 119′ | Hope | 73 % | 63 % | 65 % | 25 % |
| 97.5 % | ≈ 126′ | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence | Not enough subtitle evidence |
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Cast
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Crying Twenty-Something
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Consoling Friend
Details
- Directed by
- Ken Kwapis
- Written by
- Abby Kohn, Marc Silverstein, Greg Behrendt
- Type
- Movies
- Released
- 2009
- Runtime
- 129 min
- Country
- Germany, United States
- Ratings
- Feels mostly
- Empathy
- Data updated
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