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The Big Wedding

2013 · 90 min · Director: Justin Zackham ★ IMDb 5.6 · 54,101 ratings

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Don and Ellie were once married and have two children, Lyla and Jared. They adopt a boy from Colombia, Alejandro. Eventually they would divorce, Ellie would move away and Don would hook up with Bebe, Ellie's best friend. When Alejandro is about to get married, he informs Don and Ellie that he never told his natural mother who is so traditional that they got divorced. And she is coming for the wedding so he asks them if they can pretend to still be married. Don and Ellie reluctantly agree to it and Bebe moves out who is also upset that Don doesn't want to commit. Lyla who is married is going through a rough patch in her marriage. And Jared who hasn't had much luck with women finds himself attracted to Alejandro's extremely sensual sister, Nuria.

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The Big Wedding (2013) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Humor 30%, Confusion 25%, Empathy 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure

  1. Humor30%
  2. Relief10%

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Why it feels this way

The strongest emotional signals are Humor, Confusion, Empathy. Genres: Comedy, Drama, Romance. AI estimate.

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Consider this title if you are looking for Humor, Confusion and Empathy. Its IMDb rating of 5.6/10 suggests a mixed audience reception; consider how well the emotional profile suits you. For these leading emotions, its Feel Score is 57/100.

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  • Humor
  • Love
  • Joy

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No dominant emotion

Dominant emotion: Humor

Dominant emotion: Tension

Dominant emotion: Love

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Love
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Emotional journey Emotional intensity over the film’s runtime, from quieter to stronger on a fixed 0–1 scale. Hatched intervals have insufficient subtitle evidence. The table provides the values. Not enough subtitle evidence
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Dominant emotion

Intensity dips around 38 %, then peaks around 93 %.Ending hidden

Emotional journey
%Approximate minuteDominant emotionOverall intensityHumorLoveJoy
2.5 %≈ 2′Humor52 %52 %18 %13 %
7.5 %≈ 7′Humor49 %49 %14 %15 %
12.5 %≈ 11′Humor50 %49 %14 %18 %
17.5 %≈ 16′Humor54 %46 %13 %13 %
22.5 %≈ 20′Tension54 %40 %14 %9 %
27.5 %≈ 25′Humor51 %41 %19 %14 %
32.5 %≈ 29′Humor50 %48 %20 %19 %
37.5 %≈ 34′Humor49 %48 %21 %18 %
42.5 %≈ 38′Humor49 %44 %28 %18 %
47.5 %≈ 43′Love50 %43 %36 %21 %
52.5 %≈ 47′Humor50 %45 %34 %20 %
57.5 %≈ 52′Humor51 %48 %28 %19 %
62.5 %≈ 56′Humor53 %46 %32 %24 %
67.5 %≈ 61′Humor56 %48 %30 %24 %
72.5 %≈ 65′Tension61 %49 %20 %19 %
77.5 %≈ 70′Humor61 %43 %30 %21 %
82.5 %≈ 74′Love63 %34 %51 %32 %
87.5 %≈ 79′Love66 %32 %63 %50 %
92.5 %≈ 83′Love67 %37 %65 %60 %
97.5 %≈ 88′Not enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidenceNot enough subtitle evidence
Rags to riches

Rags to riches: The emotional tone rises from negative to positive.

Riches to rags: The emotional tone falls from positive to negative.

Man in a hole: The tone falls, then recovers.

Icarus: The tone rises, then falls.

Cinderella: The tone rises, falls, then rises again.

Oedipus: The tone falls, rises, then falls again.

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Cast

Ben Barnes

Alejandro 'Alex' Soto Griffin

Amanda Seyfried

Missy O'Connor

Susan Sarandon

Beatrice 'Bebe' McBride

Topher Grace

Jared Griffin

Christine Ebersole

Muffin O'Connor

David Rasche

Barry O'Connor

PR
Patricia Rae

Madonna Soto

AA
Ana Ayora

Nuria Soto

Robin Williams

Father Monaghan

KB
Kyle Bornheimer

Andrew

MK
Megan Ketch

Jane

IB
Ian Blackman

Maitre d'

SD
Shana Dowdeswell

Waitress

DT
Doug Torres

Waiting Father

MV
Marvina Vinique

Mother

JN
Joshua Nelson

Worker

Details

Directed by
Justin Zackham
Written by
Justin Zackham, Jean-Stéphane Bron, Karine Sudan
Type
Movies
Released
2013
Runtime
90 min
Country
United States
Ratings
★ IMDb 5.6 · 54,101 ratings
Feels mostly
Humor
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