The Ref
1994 · 97 min · Director: Ted Demme
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Denis Leary plays an unfortunate cat burglar, who is abandoned by his partner in the middle of a heist, and is forced to take an irritating Connecticut couple (Kevin Spacey, Judy Davis) hostage. He soon finds that he took on more than he bargained for when the couple's blackmailing son and despicable in-laws step into the picture. Before long they're driving him nuts with their petty bickering and family problems. The only way for him to survive is to be their referee and resolve their differences, before he can be nabbed by the police.
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The Ref (1994) — Movie. Top emotional signals: Humor 35%, Anxiety 20%, Empathy 20%. Source: AI estimate. Shares describe emotional signal, not percentages of people. Your experience may differ. How we measure
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Why it feels this way
The strongest emotional signals are Humor, Anxiety, Empathy. Genres: Comedy, Drama, Crime. AI estimate.
Is it worth watching?
Consider this title if you are looking for Humor, Anxiety and Empathy. Its IMDb rating of 6.9/10 suggests a generally positive audience reception. For these leading emotions, its Feel Score is 70/100.
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Emotional journey
- Humor
- Tension
- Sadness
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No dominant emotion
Dominant emotion: Humor
Dominant emotion: Tension
Dominant emotion: Sadness
Dominant emotion
| % | Approximate minute | Dominant emotion | Overall intensity | Humor | Tension | Sadness |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2.5 % | ≈ 2′ | Humor | 45 % | 43 % | 12 % | 8 % |
| 7.5 % | ≈ 7′ | Humor | 51 % | 45 % | 26 % | 16 % |
| 12.5 % | ≈ 12′ | Tension | 55 % | 44 % | 43 % | 15 % |
| 17.5 % | ≈ 17′ | Humor | 54 % | 44 % | 46 % | 8 % |
| 22.5 % | ≈ 22′ | Humor | 53 % | 46 % | 44 % | 5 % |
| 27.5 % | ≈ 27′ | Humor | 53 % | 46 % | 43 % | 8 % |
| 32.5 % | ≈ 32′ | Humor | 54 % | 45 % | 45 % | 10 % |
| 37.5 % | ≈ 36′ | Humor | 59 % | 46 % | 53 % | 8 % |
| 42.5 % | ≈ 41′ | Tension | 60 % | 45 % | 55 % | 9 % |
| 47.5 % | ≈ 46′ | Humor | 56 % | 41 % | 48 % | 20 % |
| 52.5 % | ≈ 51′ | Humor | 55 % | 39 % | 44 % | 25 % |
| 57.5 % | ≈ 56′ | Tension | 55 % | 41 % | 44 % | 15 % |
| 62.5 % | ≈ 61′ | Humor | 59 % | 51 % | 41 % | 9 % |
| 67.5 % | ≈ 65′ | Humor | 63 % | 56 % | 43 % | 15 % |
| 72.5 % | ≈ 70′ | Humor | 64 % | 49 % | 50 % | 29 % |
| 77.5 % | ≈ 75′ | Tension | 68 % | 45 % | 56 % | 36 % |
| 82.5 % | ≈ 80′ | Humor | 69 % | 52 % | 56 % | 28 % |
| 87.5 % | ≈ 85′ | Humor | 68 % | 58 % | 54 % | 18 % |
| 92.5 % | ≈ 90′ | Humor | 65 % | 48 % | 41 % | 24 % |
| 97.5 % | ≈ 95′ | Sadness | 60 % | 30 % | 23 % | 40 % |
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Icarus: The tone rises, then falls.
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Oedipus: The tone falls, rises, then falls again.
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Cast
Jesse Chasseur
Mary
John
Lt. Steve Milford
Bartender
Details
- Directed by
- Ted Demme
- Written by
- Richard LaGravenese, Marie Weiss
- Type
- Movies
- Released
- 1994
- Runtime
- 97 min
- Country
- United States
- Ratings
- Feels mostly
- Humor
- Data updated
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